How to teach him to do cunnilingus

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For most women, cunnilingus it is the most exquisite kindness, that she can get from a men. Unfortunately, many men are not in a hurry to deliver their women this delight. Let’s see why this is happening and how to make this type of caresses became a favorite for your men.

First, we shall understand the psychological aspect. Many women believe that sex should act under the principle “you to me – I to you.” That is, if I’ve done you a blowjob, be kind and do me a cunnilingus. Unfortunately, from the perspective of a man, to do a cunnilingus to a woman, even the beloved one, is a kind of feat, and he must break not only one inner barrier. First, he’s pushed by the public opinion – this is considered as something shameful. Secondly, we should not forget that men and women have different views on the same thing: for example, the vast majority of women, even after finding out about men’s cheating, try to restrain him, while men just go away. That is, men are the owners of everything that concerns their women. From my experience I would say that this is reflected in the fact that when a man decides to do cunnilingus, he could not help think about all the men who were with you before. Therefore, dear women, if you want your man to make you a cunnilingus, try to make sure that he never finds out about your past sexual experiences with other men – or at least minimize the details.

Now here are some simple advices:

How to do cunnilingus

  • Before starting to teach a man cunnilingus, you should start with yourself – yes, with yourself. Many of us have learned from childhood that it’s bad to show your genitals to anyone, and now, as an adult women, we are still ashamed to show our naked body, even to our beloved. It is therefore essential to not be ashamed to show your genitals. Turn on the lights, throw away the blanket, let your partner enjoy your body in detail. For a man, there is nothing more beautiful than your naked body. The closer your genitals will be, the higher will be the chance to interest him.
  • Men make most of cunnilingus in two situations: as a token of thanks for a terrific blow, or if he wants to bring you to orgasm at all costs. Our task is to change that. Therefore, if you do a blow job, remember: a man must see that you really like it. You must infect your partner with your passion.
  • Be sure to take a shower before sex with an intimate gel. Your sexual organs have an acidic environment, and during this procedure you should use the intimate gel, as it also has an acid base, rather than alkaline, as the ordinary soap.
  • In order to hint about your desire to a man, the perfect posture is 69. It is enough to arrange your genitals within the reach of his tongue and show your excitement with your thighs in parallel selflessly performing the blowjob. He will easily catch the true meaning of these gestures, and if you did everything right, forget about all your prejudices.
  • In order to surprise your man and “sweeten” his first time, find out what fruit your man likes and use an oral lubricant with this taste.
  • Even if you do not really like the way he performed this ritual for the first time, you have to say that it was the best sex of your life. A positive feedback will strengthen the confidence in him, and he will be more likely to do it again the next time.
  • Many men complain about the slowness of cunnilingus. Therefore, before hinting a man you want cunnilingus, learn your body, find out in what position you are able to quickly get an orgasm, what affection and what erogenous zones most quickly help you achieve the desired end. If you are having difficulty achieving orgasm fast, use an exciting cream.
  • In the future, do not be shy, show your excitement and groans, how do you like and how you get more pleasure. Use the phrase “I want” and “I like.” Talk with a passionate voice and not with indifference. Men also receive a part of the excitement through the ears, and for them these phrases are not only a call to action, but an additional excitement stimulation. Try to not  use negative phrases like “I do not like”.

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